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Trusted LGBTQ+ Matchmaking Service – Serving Gay & Lesbian Singles Since 1994

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What We Are

Our Members

Our diverse members are professionals aged 21–70+, all seeking genuine connections and meaningful relationships. Many are:

Your Matchmaking Journey

We start with a consultation, build your profile, and guide you through screening. Once you join, our expert matchmakers curate introductions and gather feedback to continually refine your matches—aiming to create what we call an "irresistible match." Our dedicated team and support staff are with you every step of the way.

"For those searching for a life partner." – METRO NEW YORK

"Out of all the gay and lesbian matchmaking services we looked into, OPTIONS received the most praise, even from its competitors." – L.A. WEEKLY

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