Trusted LGBTQ+ Matchmaking Service – Serving Gay & Lesbian Singles Since 1994
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What We Are
- Providing personalized matchmaking services for LGBTQ+ singles seeking meaningful, long-term relationships since 1994.
- Experienced matchmakers work individually with you to ensure thoughtful, compatible introductions.
- We focus on over 100 physical and non-physical characteristics to craft personalized matches.
- We uphold strict privacy and screening standards for your security and peace of mind.
- An affordable, dignified alternative to bars and online dating.
Our Members
Our diverse members are professionals aged 21–70+, all seeking genuine connections and meaningful relationships. Many are:
- Privacy-conscious career professionals.
- Busy individuals ready to meet in person, not just chat online.
- People moving beyond the bar scene, looking for something real.
- Those with prior long-term relationship experience.
Your Matchmaking Journey
We start with a consultation, build your profile, and guide you through screening. Once you join, our expert matchmakers curate introductions and gather feedback to continually refine your matches—aiming to create what we call an "irresistible match." Our dedicated team and support staff are with you every step of the way.
"For those searching for a life partner." – METRO NEW YORK
"Out of all the gay and lesbian matchmaking services we looked into, OPTIONS received the most praise, even from its competitors." – L.A. WEEKLY
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