Real People. Real Matches. Real Results.

At age 64 and 70 we finally found each other. There's a feeling of something extraordinary about it--turns out that she works where I work and we live a mile apart. We'd even exchanged a few work emails but had never met and didn't actually know each other beyond a polite collegial exchange. We would never have really found each other without Options. There's something very special in the Option's matching system! She was the very first woman they called me about and the common values, goals, characteristics, and want-in-a-partner lists were absolutely on point. We both feel that we're finally home and with the person we've each been looking to find all our lives. Options made us possible and I am so very grateful!
– Carla Bradley, Ph.D.

“I’ve had a very positive experience with Gay Options and have been a member for some time now and am quite pleased with their professionalism and dedication to matching individuals to find “the one.” I highly recommend them for anyone who is serious about connecting with someone who shares similar values, beliefs and interests. I can speak from my personal experience and was excited to be matched with someone whose personality and ideals had always been just a vision in my mind. Gay Options’ method found and connected me with the real life version of who I had always dreamed of meeting.”
– Fran Maldari

“I joined Options in March of 2012. I had grown frustrated with the online dating scene and did not frequent lesbian bars. I truly did not know how I was ever going to meet someone. After speaking with Brooke, I decided to give Options a try. They have a thorough screening process and years of experience behind them. Throughout the process, there was always an Options staff member available to me. Patience is not my strong suit, however, the staff reassured me that I would find a match but that it may take some time. It has been just over a year, and I am pleased to report that I have found a very compatible match. Jennifer was totally worth the wait! I have had other relationships over the years, and I can honestly say that Jennifer is by far my most compatible partner. Thank you, Options!”
– Lisa Fisher

“At long last love, Gay Options really came through for me! I did not give up, it didn't happen overnight but when they matched me, it was a huge success, I am very happy and I know you will be also!”
– CeCe Pinheiro

I have had the great pleasure of working with the professionals at Gay Options. The membership staff listened carefully to my interests and paid close attention to my views of a vital and fulfilling relationship. They were genuinely encouraging and realistic about the dating opportunities that could follow. The warmth of our conversations and evident experience of the staff were reassuring, and I looked forward to the prospect of hearing back from them. When they did call with a prospective match, I was startled at how well aligned the woman’s background and current life were to mine. The two of us connected. We talked on the phone several times, met, really hit it off, and started dating. While this match did not ultimately lead to a lasting relationship for understandable reasons, I am completely delighted to have met this woman. My experience was positive and affirming, and has left me feeling confident that the professionals at Gay Options will help me meet someone with whom I can build a mutually joyous and meaningful relationship.
– Karen G.